Cassp,
It makes a big difference on the condition of the residents. If it's a retirement community there will be more dancers. If it's a true Nursing Home, it will be mostly a concert.
Most of the residents in Nursing Homes, and Retirement Centers as well, remember the songs from the 50's and 60's.
A lot of people play songs as far back as the 20's and 30's, but a person who was in his teens or 20's that long ago would be around 100 now. There aren't many of those.
I find it important to keep the tempo upbeat most of the time. You can do a few ballads, but try to make them love songs as opposed to songs about losing your love. Many of your audience will be widows or widowers and they could bring back sad memories.
Recent threads on both smallgig and PSR Tutorial addressed this issue and several people posted lists.
Also, I think we've discussed it here before, so you might try a search.
My rules are: Play songs they remember, enjoy, maybe can sing along to, and that will get them tapping thier toes.
Most Nursing Homes have PLENTY of church and choir music provided, and that's great. But I try to make mine Rock N' Roll and CW classics. It works great around here.
I usually close with an upbeat gospel song something like "I'll Fly Away" at the NHs. I promise they will sing along.
I wouldn't price it by the hour. Have a price for a normal one-hour show, and another for special parties or dances that last longer.
Around here it's hard to get more than $100 for an hour show.
Be very aware of the volume. Too loud is a BIG no-no and will cause you to not be re-hired.
These will be the most rewarding jobs you'll ever do!!!
Hope this helps!
DonM

[This message has been edited by DonM (edited 10-24-2007).]