THink of it like this.....when you were 18 you started driving a car...both hands tightly on the wheel, tense, etc etc ......but a shiort while later you got your arm around your girlfriend........smoking a butt, listening to the radio, steering with your knees etc etc ........what Im driving at ( no pun intended ) is that the DRIVING becomes secondary to what your doing otherwise........just like when you play on stage....your eyes are on the audience, looking out there, not worrying about your fingers, rarely looking down at your hands or at a chart making it look effortless to the audience when performing creating a good stage presence...........now get that blindfold on......& no Peeking !