Plenty of headphone output attenuators out there...
I actually use my G70's headphones output to feed a pair of Mackie self powered hotspots. That way, even if the band PA is mono, or not enough auxes to give me L+R back in stereo, I can still monitor myself in lovely, lovely stereo (and blend in the band sends on other input channels).
Now the Bose apparently has no input attenuation (yet another strange oversight when it comes to Bose connectivity), but you can go to Radio Shack and get a headphone attenuator (something like this:
http://www.amazon.com/Koss-155954-VC20-V...hone+Attenuator ) and your problems are solved.